Lessons from Game Of Thrones -The Sansa Stark Syndrome...

OK, I confess, I'm a big fan of GOT. GRR Martin's cast of characters presents us with many life lessons  and analogies that can be applied to this world as well as the fantasy world of Westeros.

Is Sansa Stark passive and shallow? 

While watching some clips on YouTube I found myself glancing at the comment thread and noted that people tended to be particularly annoyed by the Sansa Stark character.  Apparently she is too "passive" and was being unfavorably compared to her badass sister Arya.